You might consider using ChatGPT to explore a specific topic without the need to purchase a book or sift through internet search results. The following example demonstrates how you can utilize ChatGPT to learn about Covey’s 7 Habits for Highly Effective People. The advantage of using ChatGPT, as opposed to reading a book, is that it allows you to ask follow-up questions, offering a more dynamic learning experience compared to simply reading a static book or website.
Example prompt:
What are the 7 habits?
Response:
The “7 Habits” typically refer to the principles outlined in Stephen R. Covey’s book, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”. These habits are:
- Be Proactive: Focus on things you can actually do something about, rather than reacting to external events.
- Begin with the End in Mind: Define clear, personal, and professional goals.
- Put First Things First: Prioritize tasks based on importance rather than urgency.
- Think Win-Win: Seek mutually beneficial solutions or agreements in your relationships.
- Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood: Listen to others first before trying to be heard.
- Synergize: Combine the strengths of people through positive teamwork to achieve goals that no one could have done alone.
- Sharpen the Saw: Regularly renew and improve oneself in the four areas of life: physical, social/emotional, mental, and spiritual.
Follow on question:
What are some examples of how to use habit 1?
Response:
Habit 1, “Be Proactive,” focuses on taking responsibility for your life and actions. Here are some examples of how to apply this habit:
- Taking Initiative: Instead of waiting for things to happen, take steps to make them happen. For instance, if you’re seeking a job, don’t just wait for job listings; reach out to your network, update your skills, or volunteer in your field of interest.
- Focusing on Your Circle of Influence: Concentrate on things you can control, like your attitude, actions, and words, rather than external circumstances or others’ behavior.
- Managing Your Responses: When faced with a challenging situation, pause and consider your response instead of reacting impulsively. For example, if someone is rude to you, choose to respond calmly rather than escalating the situation.
- Setting Personal Goals: Identify what you want to achieve in different areas of your life and create a plan to work towards these goals.
- Adapting to Change: Embrace change and see it as an opportunity for growth, rather than resisting or fearing it.
- Taking Responsibility for Mistakes: If you make a mistake, own it, apologize if necessary, and learn from it, rather than blaming others or external factors.
- Self-Care and Personal Development: Regularly invest time in your own health, learning, and emotional well-being. This could mean adopting a new fitness routine, learning a new skill, or practicing mindfulness and stress management techniques.
By practicing these proactive behaviors, you align more with the essence of Habit 1, which is about controlling what you can and responding positively to what you can’t.
From there you can ask follow questions about other of the habits or provide examples from your own life and ask for how to improve them. Basically you have access to your own personal life coach without needing to spends any money or time to find someone to help you.

